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Tuesday, March 11, 2025   Posted without comment. Addressing Risks from Perkins Coie LLP        EXECUTIVE ORDER        March 6, 2025   By the authority vested in me as President by the Constitution and the laws of the United States of America, it is hereby ordered: Section 1. Purpose. The dishonest and dangerous activity of the law firm Perkins Coie LLP (“Perkins Coie”) has affected this country for decades. Notably, in 2016 while representing failed Presidential candidate Hillary Clinton, Perkins Coie hired Fusion GPS, which then manufactured a false “dossier” designed to steal an election. This egregious [...]

2025-03-07T11:23:39-05:00

Caught in the Unknown

Tuesday, March 4, 2025  It feels strange to be here, this place we find ourselves together; caught between what we knew before and what might lie ahead.  There is no clear sense of direction yet, let alone a destination or eventual outcomes. This doesn’t feel like a typical uncertainty, either. It doesn’t seem to be the low-grade uncertainty that we recognize; the type that often runs in the background but that at least grants us some sense of how things might unfold. This feels different. Many of the usual trail markers that once guided us seem out of place, and [...]

2025-03-03T15:18:08-05:00

Tuesdays With Mary: The (Lost?) Art of the Follow-Up

Tuesday, February 25, 2025 I’ve come to believe that many of the best opportunities in life and business don’t come from the first conversation, but from what happens after. How many times have you met someone at a conference, had a great conversation, exchanged business cards, and then… nothing? Or had a moment where you thought, I should check in with them, but then the day got away from you? The follow-up is where relationships are built. It’s where ideas turn into action, where a passing conversation becomes a lasting connection. And yet, so many of us either forget to [...]

2025-02-25T12:37:44-05:00

Tuesdays with Mary: When the River Floods

Tuesday, February 11, 2025 This week, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB) was effectively shuttered, and I find myself sitting with mixed emotions. It’s not a rare moment, given my chosen profession, to pause and reflect on the role of effective regulation, the impact of enforcement, and the tension between those who call for reform and those who fear its absence. It’s complicated, and like many things in our industry, it doesn’t lend itself to simple, all-or-nothing solutions. Regulation, like a river, is necessary. It provides structure, flow, and life to the financial ecosystem. But when a river floods its [...]

2025-02-10T16:32:07-05:00

Tuesdays with Mary: What Was and Will Be

Tuesday, February 3, 2025 Some days, life feels like a sturdy old book with well-worn pages, its chapters unfolding just as we expect. We settle into our routines, comforted by the predictability of morning coffee, familiar conversations, and the quiet hum of daily life. And then, without warning, the page turns faster than we anticipated. A gust of change sweeps through, and suddenly, we’re standing in a new chapter we didn’t see coming. Rolling with change isn’t always easy. Whether it’s life or your life’s work that suddenly shifts course, the feeling of uncertainty can be unsettling. We can cling [...]

2025-02-03T14:53:42-05:00

Tuesdays With Mary: Our American Dream

Tuesday, January 28, 2025 Today, I’m sharing with you the words of others rather than my own.  Recently I’ve taken part in more than a few discussions about the American Dream.  Is it alive, is it well, is it out of reach?  The following question and answer, as shared recently on the Advisory Opinions podcast*, I think sums it up as well as it can be summed.  Enjoy. Question from Listener: “I'm writing to you because I need some guidance to help a student with her end-of-year baccalaureate project.  She has chosen to look at how and if the Supreme [...]

2025-01-28T09:00:09-05:00

Tuesdays with Mary: Monday Morning Quarterbacking

Tuesday, January 21, 2025 It’s Tuesday, so let’s talk about Monday morning quarterbacking—it’s practically a national pastime. We’ve all been there, rehashing the details of what went wrong or what could have gone better with the perfect clarity hindsight affords. It’s human nature to connect the dots once the outcome is known, and with that clarity, we often wonder why the right decision didn’t seem so obvious in the moment. The truth is, recognizing missed opportunities is always easier after the fact. The variables that seemed complex and uncertain when we were in the middle of the situation often feel [...]

2025-01-21T11:38:48-05:00

Tuesdays with Mary: Nested Vulnerabilities in Housing Finance and Real Estate

Tuesday, January 14, 2025 As we step into 2025, the air feels charged with possibility and uncertainty. What lies ahead for housing finance and real estate? Much of the answer depends on how well we can navigate a world where complexity is often the only certainty. Among the challenges that demand our attention, one stands out: nested vulnerabilities. These hidden risks, woven into the very fabric of our systems, can remain dormant until the moment they cascade, disrupting entire processes and industries. The question isn’t whether they exist but how prepared we are to identify and address them. In housing [...]

2025-01-13T15:43:10-05:00

Tuesdays with Mary: Lessons from the Denver Airport Baggage Handling Fiasco

Tuesday, January 7, 2025 Happy New Year!  It’s 2025 and I bet you have some big projects planned.  I’ve been thinking about successful projects and what makes or breaks one.  Before we go much further, it should be said that I love flying to or through Denver International Airport (DIA); the wide-open spaces, the striking architecture, the mountains peeking off to the west, and the sense that I’m about to embark on a new adventure. It’s a top-tier airport today, but it wasn’t always that way. DIA's early struggles illustrate how even brilliant concepts can face notorious setbacks in execution. [...]

2025-01-03T16:03:06-05:00

Tuesdays with Mary: The Lens of Nostalgia

Tuesday, December 31, 2024 I’ve been thinking that there’s something magical about stumbling across an old home video, isn’t there? The grainy footage, the muted colors, and the shaky, unscripted moments can instantly shuttle you back to a different time, a different version of the world. It seems I’m not the only one who feels this way; I read recently that Gen Z has recently embraced a fascinating trend of watching hours of camcorder footage from the 1980s and 1990s. What’s striking about this phenomenon is that it’s not rooted in personal memory; these viewers weren’t alive during the eras [...]

2024-12-31T13:45:12-05:00