Blog – Tuesdays with Mary

Tuesday, August 13, 2024 I’ve been thinking about the new trend in adventure travel, or what we used to call staying in a hotel. Not that long ago, in the before times, it was usually a straightforward proposition and experience. Different classes of hotels, and sometimes individual properties themselves, would have their set of services and amenities that could almost always be safely relied upon . It seems COVID changed all that; I hope not forever. Travel during the pandemic, whether necessary for work or chosen voluntarily for personal trips, was understandably a roll of the dice. Most hotels located [...]

Tuesday, August 6, 2024 I’ve been thinking about your secret code or phrase for security purposes.  If you haven’t yet established one with key people in your life (both personal and professional) please do. The deepfakes are running rampant.  It seems no one is exempt, whether you’re somebody’s beloved Grammy or an executive at Ferrari.  Did you see the latest? An executive at Ferrari was contacted via WhatsApp by someone pretending to be the company’s CEO asking, “Hey, did you hear about the big acquisition we’re planning?  I could need your help.”  The conversation continued back and forth for a [...]

Tuesday, July 30, 2024 I’ve been thinking about our collective, strange, seemingly ever-present and unusual mixture of ennui and agitation about the state of things now and where they are headed.  Bestselling books have been written about the cause of this, and I don’t disagree with many of their conclusions about technology, disconnectedness, and institutional disappointments.  But what is the nature of our own individual sense of discomfort, and what can we do about it? “If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace [...]

Tuesday, July 16, 2024 I’ve been thinking about the famous phrase One Country, One Destiny. When your heart wants to harden and close, I hope you will sweat, strain and toil to keep it open. When despair tries to dominate your thoughts, I pray you can aggressively seek out and find a hope that nourishes. If you’ve lost touch with a friend or loved one because your politics seemed unnavigable together, I hope you might reach out and remind each other that love is vast and wonderous and far more important than even the staunchest of differing opinions. Our neighbors [...]

Tuesday, July 9, 2024 I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my second favorite equation in life.  It’s one I revisit often as a reminder to myself.  I also offer it to others, from time to time, whenever someone finds themselves in one situation, but wants to move into a different one.  The equation goes like this: Consistency over Time = Results or C x T = R.  It’s simple, elegant and has the advantage of being true to nearly any scenario. Too often we try to take giant swings toward radical change, only to realize soon after that we [...]

Tuesday, July 2, 2024 I’ve been thinking about our co-workers and colleagues and what to do when they come to us in frustration. If you’re a manager, it probably happens more than you’d like. The shy almost inaudible knock at the door.  Then they don’t quite enter when you look up and greet them. Instead, they ask with hesitation “… Have you got a minute?” The tone suggests it’s OK if you do not, in fact, have a minute … but that tone is misleading. Always say yes, and then settle in, it’s going to be more than a minute.  [...]

Tuesday, June 25, 2024 I’ve been thinking about topics versus outcomes when it comes to court cases. It’s SCOTUS opinion-palooza season, the time when we get a flurry of significant and high-profile opinions toward the end of the court’s term.  And while as of the time of this writing, we don’t yet have opinions handed down on our two Chevron Doctrine cases, several opinions that have been issued recently are worth a look, because it’s hard to miss the emerging pattern. Notice that in each of these cases there is a topic.  In fact, it is probably the topics that [...]

Tuesday, June 11, 2024 I’ve been thinking about honor. I hope you were able to watch and enjoy some of the celebrations and commemorations of the 80th anniversary of D-Day last week. I’ll admit to feeling an extra tug this year, as we look back at what was, what it meant, what was sacrificed and what we could soon face again.  I’ve watched the planes carrying those D-Day veterans load up at major U.S. airports, and the incredible welcome those old guys and their families received upon reaching Europe.  I wondered what making this journey now means to them. I’ve [...]

Tuesday, June 4, 2024 I’ve been thinking about meeting your heroes. No doubt you’re familiar with the adage, never meet your heroes, you’ll only be disappointed. I suppose it might apply to situations when a hero is a celebrity, or perhaps a politician. I’ve never held anyone in one of those jobs out as a hero (at least none that are living) so I can’t be sure. I have, however, had plenty of opportunities to meet many of my heroes; more than a few of them work in this business. This morning, I was listening to an interview with presidential [...]

Tuesday, May 28, 2024 I’ve been thinking about new recruits and maximizing opportunities to attract young workers to our industry. Let me introduce you to a couple of terrific young people who are potentially interested in working in your business. Their recent experiences might cause you to rethink where you find new talent and how you engage with them. For today, we’ll call them Sophia and Carl. Sophia and Carl are each high school seniors, bright and advanced kids, enrolled in college courses for credit. Sophia is a creative type with an interest in marketing; she has a real talent [...]